In October 2001, as a result of asbestos exposure as a child, James O'Connor was diagnosed with the asbestos caused mesothelioma cancer. His prognosis was less than a year to live. Medical surgery was not an option because of the position of the tumor and chemotherapy would do more harm than good and not significantly improve his length of life. When he rejected chemotherapy his doctors suggested that he take his wife Arlene on a cruise and start hospice care when he returned. James O'Connor rejected the advice. Instead he was determined to survive this mesothelioma cancer. Working with other professional clinicians, he found a healing path that worked for him. James changed his diet, formulated a regimen of over 100 supplements a day, practiced mind-body medicine, and relied on his own discipline to see him through the difficult times ahead. More than six years later, James was alive and active and he was enjoyed in his life.
When Cancer Monthly published Rhio’s book “They Said Months. I Chose Years! A Mesothelioma Survivor’s Story,” the details of his healing regimen were further explained. James O’Connor acknowledged that there was no right or wrong treatment for every person. Surviving mesothelioma cancer required an individual approach with the help of doctors. James also discussed how a asbestos victim should listen to their instincts and inner voice.
Besides enjoying with his family, one of the most important things James did was to help, inspire, and mentor other cancer victims. He also was always available to share his thoughts and experiences. His survival was a reminder to others that a cancer diagnosis was not destiny.
Sadly James O’Connor passed away on July 11, 2009, from the asbestos caused mesothelioma cancer. He was 69 years old.
As James was wrote at the end of his book, “My wish and prayer for all who read my book is that it will strengthen and inspire you to do whatever it takes to not only survive your disease, but also to thrive and enjoy your life.”
